Kirkkitsch’s Blog

Amityville Revisited
September 14, 2011, 8:00 pm
Filed under: Life, Spooky Stuff

The other day, after waking from a nap, it had already gotten dark outside, so I woke up to a dark house. As I left the bedroom, making my way to the living room, I heard a ‘zzzt!’ sound coming from the wall pocket in the hallway, where I keep books, a perpetually lit lamp and a few plants. At first I thought I was hearing things, so I paused and scrutinized the area from which I thought the sound had emanated from. Long pause. Nothing. I went to the living room to turn on some lamps. Continue reading

Grindr: Fruits
September 14, 2011, 6:00 am
Filed under: CrAPPS

I know, I know. “Naughty Girls Need Love Too.” Yes, I get it. And yes, I realize that you may find it ironic that I’m ‘betraying’ “my own people.” Believe me when I say: they never were. I think I can safely say that I’m not the only gay man that feels this way. And herein lies one of the primary problems (on SO many levels) that gay MEN have when it comes to dating in the gay subculture (I refuse to refer to it as a ‘community’. It’s anything but!); it is SO hard to strike a happy medium. Either gay men are ‘butch’ or ‘fem.’ I like to think I’ve struck a happy medium, but then I’m sure if you asked one of the extremes, they’d categorize you as one or the other. It’s easier that way. Otherwise, they have no idea how to relate to you on a personal level. Continue reading